Wedding DJ Checklist

A fillable, savable checklist for couples & DJs — songs, name pronunciations, do-not-play list, and an auto-built reception run sheet. Download the file and email it to your DJ.

Event basics

Used as the document title and in announcement scripts ("Please welcome Alex & Jordan!").

Headers the printout. We flag dates already in the past.

Setup / access info on the run sheet.

Timeline anchors

The anchor. Every segment is scheduled forward from here. Results show 12-hour AM/PM.

Used to compute available minutes and flag overruns.

Documented ideal is 60 min. (Runs before the entrance; shown for reference.)

Buffet nudges the dinner default & adds a dismissal cue.

Leave blank to auto-fill from style & guest count. Type a number to override.

Only used to size the buffet dinner default — never overrides your number.

Key-moment songs

The #1 make-or-break cue. Always store the artist to avoid the wrong version.

Note whether to start from the intro or a specific drop-in point.

Parent dances
Wedding-party introduction order

Mispronounced names are the biggest live-failure risk. A phonetic spelling for every person is the core safeguard — e.g. "Siobhan" → shiv-AWN.

Toasts / speeches

Best practice limits toasts to Best Man + Maid/Matron of Honor (and optionally a parent) — each one adds ~4 min of dance time.

Music preferences

Reserve ~5–10% of dance time for these plus crowd requests.

Your explicit veto list — kept separate & flagged in a warning color.

Announcement tone

A documented preference prevents the "too much talking" complaint.

Ceremony cues (if the DJ covers the ceremony)

Cue → song mappings. These are mission-critical and time-sensitive.

Vendor contacts
Setup / access info

Logistics that cause day-of failures if missing (no power, locked dock, decibel limit).

Reception plan

Enter your reception start time to build the run sheet.

Wedding DJ Checklist — guide & how to use

What it does

The music and announcements are what your guests remember about a reception — and they are exactly the details that get lost in email threads and static PDFs. This wedding DJ checklist is the fillable, savable sheet most "wedding DJ checklist" searches are really looking for: one place to capture every song cue (grand entrance, first dance, parent dances, cake, tosses, ceremony), the wedding-party introduction order with phonetic name spellings, your toast-givers, your do-not-play list, must-play requests, the run-of-show timeline, and all your venue, vendor, and day-of access details. As you fill it in, the tool auto-builds a clock-time run sheet forward from your reception start, a pronunciation card for the MC, and a validation panel that scores completeness and flags overruns. Then you download it as a file and email it to your DJ — no more "which version of the song?" confusion on the day.

How to use it

  1. Fill in the couple names, date, venue, and your reception start & curfew times — the start time anchors the whole timeline.
  2. Enter your key-moment songs as "title — artist" so the right version plays, and toggle the optional segments (cake, bouquet, garter) on or off.
  3. Add every wedding-party member and toast-giver with a phonetic spelling — this is the single most important field for the MC.
  4. Paste your must-play and do-not-play lists, set the announcement tone, and add ceremony cues, vendor contacts, and access notes.
  5. Read the run sheet, pronunciation card, and validation panel, then Save (auto-restores on return) and Download JSON to email the file to your DJ. Your DJ can Load JSON to open the exact same plan.

Worked example

Say "Alex & Jordan" set a 5:30 PM grand entrance and a 10:00 PM curfew — 4 hours 30 minutes (270 min) of reception. They choose a Buffet for 100 guests, so the dinner default is computed as 60 + 0.30 × 100 = 90 min (rounded to the nearest 5). They keep cake cutting on (8 min) and skip both tosses. They list 2 parent dances (3 min each = 6 min) and 2 toasts, Best Man and Maid of Honor (4 min each = 8 min). The tool schedules forward: grand entrance 5:30–5:35, first dance 5:35–5:40, welcome 5:40–5:45, dinner 5:45–7:15, toasts 7:15–7:23, parent dances 7:23–7:29, then open dancing fills the slack, with cake cutting placed in the back third after the bulk of dancing (so it doesn't signal guests to leave early). Adding up the fixed formalities (5 + 5 + 5 + 90 + 8 + 6 + 8 + 5 last-dance = 132 min) and subtracting from 270 leaves ~138 min of open dancing, so the headline reads roughly "Reception plan 88% complete — timeline runs 5:30 PM to 10:00 PM (4h 30m), with ~2h 18m of open dancing." The tool then suggests reserving about 7–14 min (5–10% of open dancing) for must-play and crowd requests. If they piled on six toasts instead of two, the extra 16 minutes would shrink open dancing and — past a point — trip the overrun warning.

Accuracy & disclaimers

This is a planning and coordination checklist, not a guarantee. Segment durations (5 min grand entrance, 4 min per toast, 3 min per parent dance, 8 min for cake and each toss, 5 min last dance) are documented industry rules of thumb from sources like The Knot, WeddingWire, and Zola — not fixed standards. Every venue, officiant, caterer, and DJ runs differently, so treat the generated timeline as a starting draft to confirm with your venue coordinator and DJ. The buffet dinner formula (60 + 0.30 per guest) only approximates table-dismissal time and is used solely to set the default — it never overrides a duration you type, and real duration depends on buffet lines, staffing, and how tables are released, so verify with your caterer. The cocktail-hour (60 min) and plated-dinner (90 min) defaults reflect commonly cited "sweet spots," but receptions often run 4–5.5 hours with different splits — adjust to your contract. The 5–10% request-time budget is a DJ guideline, not a rule. Pronunciation phonetics are user-supplied — the tool cannot validate them, so the MC should still rehearse names aloud with the couple before the event; any name left without a phonetic is flagged, because silence there is the exact failure this tool exists to prevent. Everything runs client-side in your browser: no data leaves the page, and because local storage can be cleared (or is unavailable in private mode), the JSON download is your durable backup — download it and email it to your DJ rather than relying on the saved session.

Common mistakes to avoid

Eight wedding-DJ mistakes (tap to expand)
  • Cutting the cake too early — it signals guests it's okay to leave. Keep it in the back third of the timeline, after the bulk of open dancing.
  • Opening toasts to the whole family — best practice is Best Man + Maid/Matron of Honor (and optionally a parent). Each extra toast eats ~4 min of dance time, which the overrun check surfaces.
  • Storing only a song title with no artist — leads to the wrong version live (acoustic vs. original). Always use "title — artist."
  • Forgetting or burying the do-not-play list — keep it explicit, separate, and visually flagged, never hidden in notes.
  • No phonetic spellings for the grand-march intros — the highest-visibility live error. Fill the phonetic field for every name.
  • Building the timeline without checking the curfew — formalities silently push past "music off." The overrun check catches this.
  • Treating buffet like plated — buffet needs more time and table-dismissal coordination; the service-style toggle adjusts the default and adds a cue.
  • Relying on a static PDF that can't be re-edited — the point of this tool is fillable, savable, re-exportable data you and your DJ can both hold.

How to embed this tool on your website

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Frequently asked questions

What should a wedding DJ checklist include?

The grand-entrance song, first dance, parent dances, the wedding-party introduction order with phonetic name spellings, toast-givers, cake/bouquet/garter songs, a do-not-play list, must-play requests, ceremony cues, the run-of-show timeline, and venue, vendor, and day-of access details. This tool captures all of it in one fillable, savable sheet.

How does the tool build the timeline?

You enter your reception start time and the tool schedules every segment forward from it — entrance, first dance, welcome, dinner, toasts, parent dances, cake, open dancing, optional tosses, and last dance — using industry-average durations. Open dancing fills the remaining time to your curfew.

Why are phonetic name spellings important?

Mispronouncing a name during the grand march is the most visible live failure. Every wedding-party member and toast-giver gets a dedicated phonetic field, and the pronunciation card flags any name left blank so the MC knows to confirm it.

How long should buffet vs plated dinner take?

Plated, stations, and family-style default to 90 min. Buffet nudges the default to 60 + 0.30 per guest (rounded to 5 min) and adds a dismissal cue — but it never overrides a duration you type. Confirm the real number with your caterer.

Does my plan save, and how do I send it to my DJ?

Yes — everything auto-saves to your browser and restores when you return. Click Download JSON to save a file you can email to your DJ; the DJ loads it back into this tool to see the exact same plan. You can also copy the run sheet as text or print a clean PDF.

What is the do-not-play list?

Your explicit veto list of songs, artists, or genres. It lives in its own red-flagged block, separate from must-play requests, and the tool warns you if the same track appears in both lists.

Is the timeline an exact schedule?

No — it's a planning draft, not a guarantee. Durations are industry averages; every venue and caterer runs differently. Confirm the run sheet with your coordinator and DJ, and watch the overrun warning when fixed formalities exceed your start-to-curfew window.

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